Hello my gorgeous ladies! Happy New Year and welcome back to my blog. It's been a while and we have a lot to catch up on. As we enter this new year I've been reflecting on my journey in 2022 and what I can do differently this year. I do hope that this list will be helpful to you lovely ladies.
1. Stop giving your time and energy to people who don't deserve it.
If you're a person with a big heart this can be difficult in the beginning. I understand wanting to be there for everyone and help in any way possible, but as I grew more and after being put in a certain situation I realized I was giving more than I got back. people were constantly feeding off of my energy and in the end I'd feel drained and when in need of help where were those people for me?
We should be around people who loves and cherishes us. We deserve great healthy friendships and relationships that uplifts us and recharges our minds and souls. In order to begin to rest, you must first be at peace. Let go of the negative people, walk away from situations that continuously leave you hurt and tired and allow yourself to heal and glow.
2. Know your worth
This sort of ties in with the previous point . When you know your worth you won't be giving yourself to just anyone and you won't settle for anything you don't deserve. This allows you to rest in your femininity because you've now set boundaries and you now have the confidence to remove yourself from unhealthy situations before it takes too much from you.
A feminine woman knows her value and what she has to offer and should never have to force anyone to see that.
3. Let things come to you/Receive
It is in our nature as women to receive. Often times I see women today making the first move or in this mindset of "I can do it myself" and while sometimes it is required in life, other times allow yourself relax and to receive. When given a compliment don't deny it, RECIEVE it, say thank you. When someone is offering to help allow yourself to RECIEVE the help. If a guy is interested in you, wait and let him approach you first. Allow yourself to be pursued and enjoy being in that softer feminine state.
Also, if you're married or dating , doing this allows your partner to feel more masculine and can make the relationship even better.( look out for a blog post in the future on femininity in relationships ;) )
4.Stop Trying so hard
I remember at the start of my femininity journey I would compare my journey to others and put myself down because I thought I would never get to the level they are at. It took a of lot trial and error to realize that its okay to not have everything down all at once.
Its okay to move at a slower pace ,its okay to make mistakes, your journey isn't always gonna look the same as others and it isn't always gonna be smooth sailing, you're absolutely gonna run into some bumps. BREATHE! and remember ,never allow your mistakes to stop you from getting up and trying again.
5.Rest
Ladies, This year we are trying our best to not be so uptight and stressed out. Loosen up a bit, take a break from all the noise and chaos and just REST. Go for a walk, read a book, stretch or simply take a couple of deep breaths .
Whatever is most relaxing to you, do it. In order to rest in your femininity and live a softer life you must first be in a relaxed state and peaceful mindset.
Thank you for taking the time to read my blog! and best wishes on your journey .
Bye love 💕
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